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Soooo beautiful. I love the examples about your little girl! Though I am not sure that autotelic people are "unable" to delay gratification for the right purpose.

The ability to delay gratification is a strength when it is done for something valuable. Merely depriving yourself of pleasure for no worthwhile future goal doesn't make sense.

I like to believe I am autotelic and I can delay gratification for the right purposes....It's not necessary that you have to exotelic to be able to delay gratification...

I am fully on board with the idea that you bring in more joy into your life when you are autotelic...

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